08 December 2005

..voice C H A T


Yesterday the time is match for both of us. She's not too busy and mine too, so I start saying "hello" to May and after that continued with her voice. Because of information technology we can speak to each other just like we were over the phone. I'd like to repeat it again..and again..and telling you more and more..

Till next time Sis, and yesterday I was so enjoyed our conversation !


>>sis henny

18 October 2005

...FRIENDSHIP QUOTES...

*Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
*True friendship never ends.
*Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
*Most people walk in and out of you life. But only friends leave footprints in your heart.

...HI GUYS! been awhile not visiting our blog...those days i made to realized that am missing my friend henny, well because of some works to be done but rest assured that always in my heart..... the "friendship" is still TREASURED.... d*_*b -->may<--

05 September 2005

the loneliest woman in the world is a woman without..

Hi Sis.. when i sign in my yahoo messenger this morning i saw your message. I want to share your message not only with you but all the readers who reads our blog.
Herewith...
"The loneliest woman in the world is a woman without a close woman friend."
"Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing."
If friendship is about to share, today I start the morning with sharing those quotation with anyone who's life have been touched by the simple word, which is FRIENDSHIP
>>henny

26 July 2005



"Sometimes we are like an angel with one wing, and we necessarily need the other wing of a similar angel to keep flying."

15 July 2005

My TOWN



my town..margonda street, two years ago the traffic wasn't so bad like nowdays.
it takes 20 minutes to go to center of town from my pad now. soon on margonda street there will be more shopping centers..

04 July 2005

JUST CHECKING IN (a good story to read)

A minister passing through his church in the middle of the day,
Decided to pause by the altar and see who had come to pray.

Just then the back door opened, a man came down the aisle,
The minister frowned as he saw the man hadn't shaved in a while.

His shirt was kinda shabby and his coat was worn and frayed, the man knelt,
he bowed his head, Then rose and walked away.

In the days that followed, each noon time came this chap, each time he knelt just for a moment, A lunch pail in his lap.
Well, the minister's suspicions grew, with robbery a main fear,
He decided to stop the man and ask him, "What are you doing here?"

The old man said, he worked down the road.
Lunch was half an hour.
Lunchtime was his prayer time,
For finding strength and power.

"I stay only moments, see, because the factory is so far away; as I kneel here talking to the Lord, This is kinda what I say:
"I JUST CAME AGAIN TO TELL YOU, LORD, HOW HAPPY I'VE BEEN, SINCE WE
FOUND
EACH OTHER'S FRIENDSHIP AND YOU TOOK AWAY MY SIN.
DON'T KNOW MUCH OF HOW TO PRAY, BUT I THINK ABOUT YOU
EVERYDAY.
SO, JESUS, THIS IS JIM CHECKING IN TODAY."

The minister feeling foolish, told Jim, that was fine.
He told the man he was welcome To come and pray just anytime.
Time to go, Jim smiled, said "Thanks."
He hurried to the door. The minister knelt at the altar, he'd never
done it before. His cold heart melted, warmed with love, and met with Jesus there.
As the tears flowed, in his heart, he repeated old Jim's prayer:

"I JUST CAME AGAIN TO TELL YOU, LORD, HOW HAPPY I'VE BEEN, SINCE WE
FOUND
EACH OTHER'S FRIENDSHIP AND YOU TOOK AWAY MY SIN.

I DON'T KNOW MUCH OF HOW TO PRAY, BUT I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY.
SO, JESUS, THIS IS ME CHECKING IN TODAY."

Past noon one day, the minister noticed that old Jim hadn't come.
As more days passed without Jim, he began to worry some.

At the factory, he asked about him, learning he was ill.
The hospital staff was worried, But he'd given them a thrill.

The week that Jim was with them, Brought changes in the ward.
His smiles, a joy contagious. Changed people, were his reward.

The head nurse couldn't understand why Jim was so glad, when no flowers,calls or cards came, Not a visitor he had.

The minister stayed by his bed, He voiced the nurse's concern:
No friends came to show they cared. He had nowhere to turn.

Looking surprised, old Jim spoke up and with a winsome smile; "the nurse is wrong, she couldn't know, that in here all the while everyday at noon He's here, a dear friend of mine, you see, He sits right down, takes my hand, Leans over and says to me:

"I JUST CAME AGAIN TO TELL YOU, JIM, HOW HAPPY I HAVE BEEN, SINCE WE
FOUND
THIS FRIENDSHIP, AND I TOOK AWAY YOUR SIN.

ALWAYS LOVE TO HEAR YOU PRAY, I THINK ABOUT YOU EACH DAY, AND SO JIM,
THIS
IS JESUS CHECKING IN TODAY."

If this blesses you, pass it on ...
Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends
will
leave footprints in your heart.

May God hold you in the palm of His hand and Angels watch over you.

But for those of us who are already His, He not only holds us in the palm
of His hand, but has engraved our names there, and we are continually in His sight (Isaiah 49:16)

27 June 2005

June, 27 2005

How r u Sista??
It's been a while not to check our BLOG. Today I feel much much better..and yesterday got to change to see my brothers house. When i will see your house? well..perhaps someday..
It's good to have a little chat last Friday, if I'm not mistaken..and have a little talk (again) discussing about my love life. Hee yaa..nothing special Sis..nowdays I feel more calm down and more wise since last April, we celebrating my Birthday.
I hope this week we could have sometime to talk but if we can't, you can always take a tour in our blog or mine.
Miss You..

14 June 2005

..tuesday..10:45 pm

...hello there ....especially to my dearest friend that i beginning to miss...henny<---her name..well am so fine though a bit tired because of works and a total renovation of the place...my days is full of works and appointments that which i usually brings reason to say in my mind when some of my friend asked how am i now..well i hope i still look younger by my age..well you my friend(henny) will say i look good eventhough i dont hehehhe...i miss to hear that,i hope you can have time reading this message of mine....our friendship remains and i keep into my heart...take care and i miss you sis...i miss you! ...if i had only one friend left,i wanted to be YOU!

08 June 2005

WEDNESDAY morning

Since her hubby is at home and she should manage so many job at store and cook. We only got a few time to speak. Yesterday was great because we could speak and telling our life..
I think it's important to stay communicate each other because that's the way we feel closely!

30 May 2005

Irene Birthday

Everyday is special, but today more special, because today you got so many greetings from family and friends and of course a special person call Husband..
Have a wonderful day friend
Have a busy day friend..since you will got so many sms during this day
Have a fun party friend
Have a Happy happy on your birthday..
Ingats,

>>Henny

23 May 2005

Monday morning..

..I received a sms from Irene, she doesn't feel alright, and can't online today. I do miss her, talking with her and found out her point of view.
..this morning I also chat with my buddys online, one in Malaysia and the other in India. It's good to hear their news and share what we thought today.
...In the moment I'll be back to work again, but before that, since I don't have enough credit to reply to her sms..all I can say..Sis..I do miss you and I pray you are going better, and soon we could talk again.
Take care friend..
muaaah
Lots to tell you, when you are online

18 May 2005

I'm not in the mood

Hi,
just want to say..I'm not in the mood of working and typing my thesis. If you can see my face today, no fun at all. I think I'm having a disease calling lazyness.
I make a hot tea to refresh my body, but i found the taste it's not good..well if only the massage person could come to office it will be nice..having a massage then a hot water in bath tube.
Then watch a movie call "full house"..it's a korean movie, the only serial movie that i like to wacth!!
..henny..

14 May 2005

...may14,2005

...hello all,yesterday i was so busy with works and chatting with henny too...at night am preparing my things for a trip,i also recieved sms(text) from henny wow from indonesia..lol...hey sis you know that first reply of mine was not complete,while trying to press letters oh i got a wrong press so it send you,sory u maybe confused of my words there,so i send back again.later i will be out of town and can't go playing conquer too...soon as am back i make up everything...as i travel alone,i will be kind of lonely then....i miss you sis....so you can concentrate to your work now right?..hehehhe momentarily no one bothering you with a big BUZZZ at your screen........see you all.....YOU CAN REACH ME WITH YOUR MIND...('',)-->iReNe<--

13 May 2005

Flying heart..with a big kiss seal..
..this beautiful lady is my friend..and of course she smiling too...so How does she look?? you agreed with me right? she's beautiful..
hi..there..hope this smile can make YOU..SMILE too..LET'S smile..and make others infected..!!!

may 13,2005

...hello all there its 1:50pm...am i late?hey dont tease me,this is usually the time i started my day hehehe...but when i have works to be done,1:00am is my bedtime..lastnight? wow i had a good play at conquer online game with my friends there...one is thea(babythea)..and haizi(spouse of dreamgirl)my character at the game,but felt hard to level up huh...with lag and ping,with that combination you wont feel good....so today henny and i are talking or chatting as usual.got to leave now...i need to chat henny..bye all...mmmmuuuuuaaahhhhhh!!!-Irene-

...awesome..

Sis...,
I think you gonna be jelous if you know the whole story.. lol
yesterday, i had a surprised, my teacher who did it. Do you remember once, I told you, when I coming to class, my friends start to sing "happy birthday"? and my teacher wish me too? yeah..then on the end we take a picture -the whole class-
and back to yesterday, my teacher put my photo (he using adobe photo program) and give a poem besides my pic..it's awesome..
I'll try to put the pic later on..
Have a nice day friend, and don't forget to smile, you never know, who's gonna be falling in love with your smile (hahahahhaa..) but don't start to falling in love other than your h...

--henny--

10 May 2005

Cebu..St Nino

last monday was so great, don't have to wake up early, and then sleep as much as i want.
So I start my day with tidy up my room, sing a song and listen a music from MP3. Yippy, got so many hours to read newspaper..and I found an interesting news, talking bout Cebu, and beach and church. Then I try to remember the last time I talked with Irene, where she lived..I don't think she live in Cebu, but I guess once she mentioned bout Cebu..
I miss talking with her, but today I have to run away to Jakarta then on the afternoon back again to office..

I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU..

...hello there..later it would be my busy hours..i haven't had my breakfast yet,i was preparing everything for my 3 days vecation...and now am listening to the music of Martin Nievera intitled I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU.This song means so much to me,not marely the tune but the mean thought that the lyric bring, i remember my school days with my other friends,that we usually hear the song..really nice. i'd like to share the song to my good friend HENNY.i hope friend that you will continue the goodness that you've shown to me..and to the rest,be HAPPY,feel GOOD,and have PEACE of MIND. I pray for you and to our FRIENDSHIP constantly..(",)-->mai or irene<--

I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU

When you wake up each morning,
and you feel like calling.
I'll be there for you.
When the road seems uncertain
and you can't stop the hurtin'.
I'll be there for you.
When there's no one beside you
I'll be there to guide you
catch you each time you fall.
When the stars won't shine anymore
I'll be there.
When the world is unkind
and your dreams, they need more time.
I'll be there for you.
If the rules they keep breaking
and the future is fading.
I'll be there for you.
The rainbow will end
in the palm of your hand
don't ever let it go.
When the stars won't shine anymore
I'll be there.
Who knows where we'll go
what will tomorrow bring.
But we have each other, just hold on tight.
We can take to the skies and fly....
I'll be there for you...
I'll be there for you...
The rainbow will end
in the palm of your hand
don't ever let it go.
When the stars won't shine anymore
I'll be there.
The rainbow will end
in the palm of your hand
don't ever let it go.
When the stars won't shine anymore
I'll be there.
I'll be there.

06 May 2005

..romantic mOviE

..since yesterday is Jesus Christ ancencion (do I type in correct words?) i got one day off. Yeah yesterday is a free day, don't have to go to office!
..in morning i went to the church and in the afternoon i got a date..lolz
well since this in an online blog, i'm not suppose to give a detail bout my date..lolz
at night after tired discussion about girls stuff, we (me and boru) watch a movie, romantic one, the title is if only..hmm actually i'm not sure bout the title since I don't really enjoy the movie. The theme is so dramatic, and not a happy ending movie! so as usually only in 30 minutes first i can focus watch, after that my mind is flying and then i fall to sleep..(sleepy girl, huh).
when the movie almost finished, i wake up, and ask boru to tell me about the story. Yeah I'm not a movie maniac anymore, now i prefer to watch TLOTR or Kill Bill rather than drama movie.
>>henny

02 May 2005

no music for today..

my daily activity for this morning is out of my planned. But I hope I could talk to Irene, interviewing two students and the big boss. Really hope..and for that I start to pray now.
..I just knew that my speaker machine is broken and I didn't bring the charger of my cell. But thanks to God my friend here lend me. Last night when I listen to my record, just found out that the battery is out of function and two records were not clear :( I hate when this things is happen but what can I say this is life sometime what I've been planned so carefully doesn't works the way I want it.
....and now Irene is online so I'll have some chat with her. Just put on my lipstic and hoping for the best for today..I want to chat about personal issue and only personal conversation can handle that.
>>henny

29 April 2005

...April 29,2005

...today,just another day that i dont feel good..though am trying to condition myself ,but i cant carry anymore and i toke a sleep and i cant remember if am having a dream.('',)i woke up around 5pm in the afternoon and got shower again,seems to me a deep sleep and getting fresh.tonight got a works to do.......paper works again. tonight i started keeping in touch with my friends that i missed to communicate well this day,henny is the first one and all my peers follows,and am keeping up those works i left behind...my friend had told me why i haven't update yet my blog at FS, i told him that i cant do two things at the same time.....maybe he cant wait what am going to put there and i'd like to make it so delayed.('',)hi henny,as i told you that if in time i cant be online regularly you can have my words here.thanks for everything that you've shared to me.-->mai<--

28 April 2005

..blow out the candle

..yesterday was my birthday without mom, dad n brothers. After midnight I start to received call n sms from friends. I can't believe that many of my friends remember my "big day" because honestly only a few that I remember their birthday!..in the morning my other friends and mom sms and called to wish me. Irene did that many times, 2 hours before and in the morning and works time also. But funny thing on my Birthday she can't go online and chat with me, a connection problems she said.

..since we've got Friendster my buddys online wish me too, they send it by FS message and email. Yeah we living in information technology era! so no time to post birthday card. I think the last time I received birthday card was in the year 2002? I guess so..since that all computerized..

...after works hours I have to treate my pad friends, before that I have a small dinner with "the captain" hehehe..that's boru nicks name..we only eat "siomay and empek-empek" then I buy "martabak telor dan manis" ( i don't know the english name of that foods). So..here is the moment I BLOW OUT the candle and make a wish with pad friends start to sing "Happy Birthday". Oh yeah, when I having a dinner with Bo..we talking again bout life, relationship..yes..a good topic when you are in "quarter life" we both sharing our problems and story..

...back in the pad..after small party, laura, bo, kak lina, and me discuss bout our experience doing traveling, mostly we talked 'bout Bali, Toba, Yogya (parang tritis) and Bintan. Laura n I has a plan to go to Singapore next time (don't know the exact time) so..whose comming with us..???

....and now April, 28 I treate my coleagues..office friends, I gave them "gorengan" breakfast!!..food FOOD and food....I have a feeling this afternoon, my classmate will be asking for a treate..Big budget for this month...but I'm happy to do..after all ONCE a year..

27 April 2005

April, 27

Make a wish and give it wings
Dreams of bright and beautiful things
Dance through all the fun filled hours
Don't forget to smell the flowers
Share some love and birthday cake
All life joys are yours to take
And when evening comes to view
Thanks your lucky stars you're you
Happy Birthday to ME
>>henny..

25 April 2005

sunday NIGHT..

Reading a message from Irene makes me laugh..so funny what you write there (:P) yeah I guess both of us crazy, but wait crazy here means a positive way! don't you think that we acts like teenager?? or I call here ABG (anak baru gede) we're so crazy that everyday we talk and start to teasing..and at the end we laugh together. Just like lastnight I go online again and using webcam..I know you kinna surprised to see how we (me & bo) acting..hmmm you see how weird we are in the Sunday night, you must see how the computer store becomes so lively when we start to laugh (noisy).
Last night me & Bo so busy to declined a friend that so curious wants to see me in cam. I said to them this is just for private. Honestly that is my second time using webcam. Said it I influenced Irene to write in blog and make a website but she did the same thing, now I familiar with thing called webcam.
The conversation becomes more "hot", when we start talking bout the eligible bachelor..hahahaha..see we did like we are teenager or more exact I looks like 15 years old girl!
It's so nice to have conversation with you and talking about many things from life, faith, family, works till love. I'm enjoying the moment I spent.

21 April 2005

...april 21,2005

...hello friends.....see? that is me and henny,sitting together huh,technology did it by henny.As usual we had a long talk today and so glad she has a good time even at her working hours.( hi friend henny thanx for all and sory sis for disturbing you,really i am,thank you for the time you spend with me when i dont feel good just like what happen to me this day...you cheer me up and make me smile at all times,so many reason why you became my friend).i wonder how it feels to have li'l sister and now you come and bo,got 2 li'l sis now...lol.and so i have to be hold on to my looks to stay that young.hahaha but i hope i could be a good sister to both of you,but you can't have my descipline as i'd like to,how sad...always try to understand you,instead.well friend.....when i think about our friendship....it reminds me of the horizons that separate our differences.-->mai<--
our photos goes online..

..for you

..a basket of tulips and daisies for a SWEET friend..i learn never holding on love but holding on your own, because you need to help yourself when love seems so far to reach, and when love go away..do not ever thing that GOD only create one person for you..the truth is so many person out there are suits for you the hard thing is to find one that closed enough to you and that person is happy to have you.. ^^henny^^

20 April 2005

..my AnZweR to HER

when i told her..if you need me to kill your time and i'm always here..what i mean is a friend is someone that you could talk to n hear bout your days, a friend is someone that you can share your laughters n tears n your past too..
the most important is, a friend is someone that know when to listen and to speak.
as you older than me, i learn much from you, and i'm glad to have you, because you colouring my days. now i have a reason when i turn on my ym, now i have a reason when i see my cell n found out your sms, now i have many reasons to put some words in this blog.
this is my answer to you..I'm glad being one of your friend, Irene.

^henny^

...april 20,2005...

...hello there,
am kind of having a subconcious mind today,i dont know what i feel.yesterday i was kind of busy of my works,but trying to have time talking with my friend henny( my day wont be enough without talking to her)yeah that is henny,she's not that talkative.hehehe i do the same to her,in fairness.she told me that, if i need somebody ....she's just there( killing my time), but she is wrong....so many things that could kill my time...doing busy works make my time used already,and when i get it all done i think about you friend and if your busy,i sleep or doing things to keep me awake.i can't promise you about the future about our friendship but you know how to reach me,i can never be a perfect friend but i can offer good deeds that i've learned and advices maybe,and i want you to know that ...always you make me smile,even i feel so worried of my days.thanks....ingatz! -->mai<--
***PUT GOD FIRST IN ANYTHING YOU DO,AND EVERYTHING SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU**

18 April 2005

Missing y o u !!!!!!!!!

This Monday at 3.ooAM I'm still busy with my tape recorder, and my computer writing for my thesis..then I remember you, in one hour you'll be woke up and have a pray. I want to sms you but then I think when the sun rise we will get a chance to have a little chat! so I wait till the morning comes.
At 10.00 AM, I'm back again writing my thesis, then I sign in my YM waiting for you to show up, but till lunch time you not show up yet..so where are you frenz?? are you alright or maybe you have important meeting that brought you far from computer and internet?
Today I miss you, I miss our conversation, if only you are near I'll be right next to you and ask you do you miss me too?
Hope everything is alright there..
I'm enjoying the moment we spent and I want you to know that. Have a wonderful day friend!!!

>>henny

17 April 2005

a friend...always be a FRIEND...

...hello i got a great news here.henny and i got the chance seing each other last night on webcam...for a month that we've been talked only through chatting,phone,and sms.....now i know henny is telling the truth....(hi henny good to see you friend).it was just a short conversation then....i supposed to asked another minutes more but they disappear or log out so soon,well i didn't owned the cafe' they are using,only here in the philippines i can offer open time. :D but still fine atleast maybe next time i can have good time talking to my friend henny.....that is all for now,got to have dinner kind of hungry.ingatz!

14 April 2005

Just a Thought..

Since I've been post many things in my blog..now it's a turn to put something in our blog, don't u think friend? hahaha..she doesn't want me to col sis, she said, she looks old when i col that way.
okay.. i should not said more bout you..
so i'm going to start today with a thought..be THANKFULL
if u keep that word in your heart & mind, so you never get bored..
It's true that in life there always a miracle.. but i find the important thing besides that. I found out friends and family that i should love and some works that i should do.
For everybody who's been hurted and think that never be loved and love again, believe in one word MIRACLE!

"A life spent in making mistakes is not only more honourable but more useful than a life spent doing nothing." George Bernard Shaw

>>henny

13 April 2005

..April 13,2005

..we had a very good day today,i talked with henny for an hour and everything under the sun.we talked about life itself and our long distance friendship.....no worries about the time and just enjoying while taking the advantage of having an internet connection.most of our talkings are depends what come along in my mind then i asked henny....and vice versa.our posting here usually our views in life on how we described ourself or feelings that we feel on day to day basis in our on ways.......i chose words that can easily be understood by all,for the general purpose.but totally me and henny maybe something in common in terms of likes and dislike in our PRINCIPLES IN LIFE,as we talked today ..some girl talk thing that other might also doing it, i can feel the chemistry...blend,because if not,we might end up arguing each other.
..at night...or should i say later tonight i have works to do,as usual striving hard for living! but i am hopeful it will be end up not until dawn...so i can have a good rest....that's all folks!

12 April 2005


wElcOme..selamat DaTang in our BLOG..THIS BLOG OWN BY ME & MAYLA, I'm Indonesian and Mayla or Irene from Philippines. It's so FUNNY HOW WE MEET, the truth is WE FORGOT the exactly day and date we meet. After all I really enjoying the TIME I spent with HER! ^^^^^ (henny) Posted by Hello

11 April 2005

..soulMATE...(unknown)

Two minds together as one
From the beginning of day Until the night is done.
A mile or thousands of miles
May separate with distance.
Longer than is the Nile,
But no matter how far your soulmate is,
You are close and together by one heart.
<--mai--<<

The most Important Thing being a Single..

Go for a blind date and when you are not interested with that guy just reject his call.

to my F R I E N D

I'd like to be the kind of F R I E N D
that you have been to me;
I'd like to be the special help
that you've been glad to be.
I know I'm blessed for only God
can make a friend like you;
You know just how to cheer me up
whenever I feel blue.
Could I but have one wish fulfilled,
this one only would it be-
I'd like to be the kind of F R I E N D
you've always been to me.
(Author unknown)

09 April 2005

...WeLcOmE...

...hello,welcome to our blog called...kebun dari teman (garden of friendship).my friend henny had asked me about the idea having a blog,i said to her why not? and i found this very interesting since we haven't met yet in person but our friendship had grown up day after day...pouring with faith ,hope ,love and quality time talking each other through net.i never thought it happen to us like understanding each other or getting along more than (we) i expected....I wonder why GOD created a FRIEND? but suddenly i came to realized the importance of having a friend.Precisely,because we need time to ourselves that we need somebody to share part of our life to a person that we call friend,so much more are the reason but life is boring without a friend.
...when we decided having a blog,i mean to say..yesterday April 8,2005, i dont really have an idea,but when sis henny told me....in short.... i gave her full authority what to do,why? because i just woke up then and kind of confused (hehehe..losing my mind, i woke up late in a day).but henny did it well.And so,i came to the idea of "kebun dari teman"-garden of friendship,i was thinking of this words but trying my best to have it in indonesian although it took only a short time translating it and i asked henny if i am doing it right yet the meaning of the words from thier language,then she confirmed......well I am a Filipina and henny is an indonesian. <--mai--<<

08 April 2005

Our quote

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. (Mayla, April 7, 2005)

We have many friends during our life but only a few we call best friend. In maintain best friend relations we need faith to make it works. (Henny, April 6, 2005)

Every wrinkle in our face represents each episode of our life. It shows your laughter and tears episode. (Henny, April 8, 2005)

If you don’t have boy or girl friend, earth still a nice place to live but if you don’t have a friend, you’ll surely dying (Henny, April 5, 2005)

What is a friend? A friend is someone that can pull out you during your time of trouble and someone that can give you a big trouble too! (Henny, April 8, 2005)

Friendship is never anything but sharing (Mayla, April 7, 2005)