...April 29,2005

...today,just another day that i dont feel good..though am trying to condition myself ,but i cant carry anymore and i toke a sleep and i cant remember if am having a dream.('',)i woke up around 5pm in the afternoon and got shower again,seems to me a deep sleep and getting fresh.tonight got a works to do.......paper works again. tonight i started keeping in touch with my friends that i missed to communicate well this day,henny is the first one and all my peers follows,and am keeping up those works i left behind...my friend had told me why i haven't update yet my blog at FS, i told him that i cant do two things at the same time.....maybe he cant wait what am going to put there and i'd like to make it so delayed.('',)hi henny,as i told you that if in time i cant be online regularly you can have my words here.thanks for everything that you've shared to me.-->mai<--

..blow out the candle

..yesterday was my birthday without mom, dad n brothers. After midnight I start to received call n sms from friends. I can't believe that many of my friends remember my "big day" because honestly only a few that I remember their birthday!..in the morning my other friends and mom sms and called to wish me. Irene did that many times, 2 hours before and in the morning and works time also. But funny thing on my Birthday she can't go online and chat with me, a connection problems she said.

..since we've got Friendster my buddys online wish me too, they send it by FS message and email. Yeah we living in information technology era! so no time to post birthday card. I think the last time I received birthday card was in the year 2002? I guess so..since that all computerized..

...after works hours I have to treate my pad friends, before that I have a small dinner with "the captain" hehehe..that's boru nicks name..we only eat "siomay and empek-empek" then I buy "martabak telor dan manis" ( i don't know the english name of that foods). So..here is the moment I BLOW OUT the candle and make a wish with pad friends start to sing "Happy Birthday". Oh yeah, when I having a dinner with Bo..we talking again bout life, relationship..yes..a good topic when you are in "quarter life" we both sharing our problems and story..

...back in the pad..after small party, laura, bo, kak lina, and me discuss bout our experience doing traveling, mostly we talked 'bout Bali, Toba, Yogya (parang tritis) and Bintan. Laura n I has a plan to go to Singapore next time (don't know the exact time) so..whose comming with us..???

....and now April, 28 I treate my coleagues..office friends, I gave them "gorengan" breakfast!!..food FOOD and food....I have a feeling this afternoon, my classmate will be asking for a treate..Big budget for this month...but I'm happy to do..after all ONCE a year..

April, 27

Make a wish and give it wings

Dreams of bright and beautiful things

Dance through all the fun filled hours

Don't forget to smell the flowers

Share some love and birthday cake

All life joys are yours to take

And when evening comes to view

Thanks your lucky stars you're you

Happy Birthday to ME

>>henny..

sunday NIGHT..

Reading a message from Irene makes me laugh..so funny what you write there (:P) yeah I guess both of us crazy, but wait crazy here means a positive way! don't you think that we acts like teenager?? or I call here ABG (anak baru gede) we're so crazy that everyday we talk and start to teasing..and at the end we laugh together. Just like lastnight I go online again and using webcam..I know you kinna surprised to see how we (me & bo) acting..hmmm you see how weird we are in the Sunday night, you must see how the computer store becomes so lively when we start to laugh (noisy).
Last night me & Bo so busy to declined a friend that so curious wants to see me in cam. I said to them this is just for private. Honestly that is my second time using webcam. Said it I influenced Irene to write in blog and make a website but she did the same thing, now I familiar with thing called webcam.
The conversation becomes more "hot", when we start talking bout the eligible bachelor..hahahaha..see we did like we are teenager or more exact I looks like 15 years old girl!
It's so nice to have conversation with you and talking about many things from life, faith, family, works till love. I'm enjoying the moment I spent.

...april 21,2005

...hello friends.....see? that is me and henny,sitting together huh,technology did it by henny.As usual we had a long talk today and so glad she has a good time even at her working hours.( hi friend henny thanx for all and sory sis for disturbing you,really i am,thank you for the time you spend with me when i dont feel good just like what happen to me this day...you cheer me up and make me smile at all times,so many reason why you became my friend).i wonder how it feels to have li'l sister and now you come and bo,got 2 li'l sis now...lol.and so i have to be hold on to my looks to stay that young.hahaha but i hope i could be a good sister to both of you,but you can't have my descipline as i'd like to,how sad...always try to understand you,instead.well friend.....when i think about our friendship....it reminds me of the horizons that separate our differences.-->mai<--

our photos goes online..

..for you

..a basket of tulips and daisies for a SWEET friend..i learn never holding on love but holding on your own, because you need to help yourself when love seems so far to reach, and when love go away..do not ever thing that GOD only create one person for you..the truth is so many person out there are suits for you the hard thing is to find one that closed enough to you and that person is happy to have you.. ^^henny^^

..my AnZweR to HER

when i told her..if you need me to kill your time and i'm always here..what i mean is a friend is someone that you could talk to n hear bout your days, a friend is someone that you can share your laughters n tears n your past too..
the most important is, a friend is someone that know when to listen and to speak.
as you older than me, i learn much from you, and i'm glad to have you, because you colouring my days. now i have a reason when i turn on my ym, now i have a reason when i see my cell n found out your sms, now i have many reasons to put some words in this blog.
this is my answer to you..I'm glad being one of your friend, Irene.

^henny^

...april 20,2005...

...hello there,
am kind of having a subconcious mind today,i dont know what i feel.yesterday i was kind of busy of my works,but trying to have time talking with my friend henny( my day wont be enough without talking to her)yeah that is henny,she's not that talkative.hehehe i do the same to her,in fairness.she told me that, if i need somebody ....she's just there( killing my time), but she is wrong....so many things that could kill my time...doing busy works make my time used already,and when i get it all done i think about you friend and if your busy,i sleep or doing things to keep me awake.i can't promise you about the future about our friendship but you know how to reach me,i can never be a perfect friend but i can offer good deeds that i've learned and advices maybe,and i want you to know that ...always you make me smile,even i feel so worried of my days.thanks....ingatz! -->mai<--
***PUT GOD FIRST IN ANYTHING YOU DO,AND EVERYTHING SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU**

Missing y o u !!!!!!!!!

This Monday at 3.ooAM I'm still busy with my tape recorder, and my computer writing for my thesis..then I remember you, in one hour you'll be woke up and have a pray. I want to sms you but then I think when the sun rise we will get a chance to have a little chat! so I wait till the morning comes.
At 10.00 AM, I'm back again writing my thesis, then I sign in my YM waiting for you to show up, but till lunch time you not show up yet..so where are you frenz?? are you alright or maybe you have important meeting that brought you far from computer and internet?
Today I miss you, I miss our conversation, if only you are near I'll be right next to you and ask you do you miss me too?
Hope everything is alright there..
I'm enjoying the moment we spent and I want you to know that. Have a wonderful day friend!!!

>>henny

a friend...always be a FRIEND...

...hello i got a great news here.henny and i got the chance seing each other last night on webcam...for a month that we've been talked only through chatting,phone,and sms.....now i know henny is telling the truth....(hi henny good to see you friend).it was just a short conversation then....i supposed to asked another minutes more but they disappear or log out so soon,well i didn't owned the cafe' they are using,only here in the philippines i can offer open time. :D but still fine atleast maybe next time i can have good time talking to my friend henny.....that is all for now,got to have dinner kind of hungry.ingatz!

Just a Thought..

Since I've been post many things in my blog..now it's a turn to put something in our blog, don't u think friend? hahaha..she doesn't want me to col sis, she said, she looks old when i col that way.
okay.. i should not said more bout you..
so i'm going to start today with a thought..be THANKFULL
if u keep that word in your heart & mind, so you never get bored..
It's true that in life there always a miracle.. but i find the important thing besides that. I found out friends and family that i should love and some works that i should do.
For everybody who's been hurted and think that never be loved and love again, believe in one word MIRACLE!
"A life spent in making mistakes is not only more honourable but more useful than a life spent doing nothing." George Bernard Shaw

>>henny

..April 13,2005

..we had a very good day today,i talked with henny for an hour and everything under the sun.we talked about life itself and our long distance friendship.....no worries about the time and just enjoying while taking the advantage of having an internet connection.most of our talkings are depends what come along in my mind then i asked henny....and vice versa.our posting here usually our views in life on how we described ourself or feelings that we feel on day to day basis in our on ways.......i chose words that can easily be understood by all,for the general purpose.but totally me and henny maybe something in common in terms of likes and dislike in our PRINCIPLES IN LIFE,as we talked today ..some girl talk thing that other might also doing it, i can feel the chemistry...blend,because if not,we might end up arguing each other.
..at night...or should i say later tonight i have works to do,as usual striving hard for living! but i am hopeful it will be end up not until dawn...so i can have a good rest....that's all folks!

wElcOme..selamat DaTang in our BLOG..THIS BLOG OWN BY ME & MAYLA, I'm Indonesian and Mayla or Irene from Philippines. It's so FUNNY HOW WE MEET, the truth is WE FORGOT the exactly day and date we meet. After all I really enjoying the TIME I spent with HER! ^^^^^ (henny) 

..soulMATE...(unknown)

Two minds together as one

From the beginning of day Until the night is done.

A mile or thousands of miles

May separate with distance.

Longer than is the Nile,

But no matter how far your soulmate is,

You are close and together by one heart.

<--mai--<<

The most Important Thing being a Single..

Go for a blind date and when you are not interested with that guy just reject his call.

to my F R I E N D

I'd like to be the kind of F R I E N D

that you have been to me;

I'd like to be the special help

that you've been glad to be.

I know I'm blessed for only God

can make a friend like you;

You know just how to cheer me up

whenever I feel blue.

Could I but have one wish fulfilled,

this one only would it be-

I'd like to be the kind of F R I E N D

you've always been to me.

(Author unknown)

...WeLcOmE...

...hello,welcome to our blog called...kebun dari teman (garden of friendship).my friend henny had asked me about the idea having a blog,i said to her why not? and i found this very interesting since we haven't met yet in person but our friendship had grown up day after day...pouring with faith ,hope ,love and quality time talking each other through net.i never thought it happen to us like understanding each other or getting along more than (we) i expected....I wonder why GOD created a FRIEND? but suddenly i came to realized the importance of having a friend.Precisely,because we need time to ourselves that we need somebody to share part of our life to a person that we call friend,so much more are the reason but life is boring without a friend.
...when we decided having a blog,i mean to say..yesterday April 8,2005, i dont really have an idea,but when sis henny told me....in short.... i gave her full authority what to do,why? because i just woke up then and kind of confused (hehehe..losing my mind, i woke up late in a day).but henny did it well.And so,i came to the idea of "kebun dari teman"-garden of friendship,i was thinking of this words but trying my best to have it in indonesian although it took only a short time translating it and i asked henny if i am doing it right yet the meaning of the words from thier language,then she confirmed......well I am a Filipina and henny is an indonesian. <--mai--<<

Our quote

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. (Mayla, April 7, 2005)

We have many friends during our life but only a few we call best friend. In maintain best friend relations we need faith to make it works. (Henny, April 6, 2005)

Every wrinkle in our face represents each episode of our life. It shows your laughter and tears episode. (Henny, April 8, 2005)

If you don’t have boy or girl friend, earth still a nice place to live but if you don’t have a friend, you’ll surely dying (Henny, April 5, 2005)

What is a friend? A friend is someone that can pull out you during your time of trouble and someone that can give you a big trouble too! (Henny, April 8, 2005)

Friendship is never anything but sharing (Mayla, April 7, 2005)